Courtroom Instead of the Negotiation Table
Honest merchant – this term stands for integrity, reliability, and responsibility in business. In my work as an honorary commercial judge at the Munich I Regional Court, however, I regularly see how far expectations and reality have drifted apart when companies face each other in court. These are disputes that appear sober and technical at first glance – yet reveal a great deal about the state of today’s business culture.
The cases revolve around supply and licensing agreements, payment terms, contractual clauses, and liability issues. From a legal perspective, many of them are thoroughly prepared. What stands out, however, is the human dimension: it is strikingly often marked by hardness, mistrust, and tactical behavior.
This repeatedly raises a central question for me:
How many of these proceedings could have been avoided?
Not because the contracts were poorly drafted.
Not because one party was automatically in the wrong.
But because communication failed.
Conversations never took place or were only partially conducted. Agreements were later disputed or remembered differently. Decisions remained insufficiently documented, not confirmed, or deliberately left vague. It is precisely this lack of clarity that often proves, in hindsight, to be the core of the conflict.
Symptom of an Economic Crisis or Loss of Integrity?
With each additional case, a more fundamental question arises:
Is the growing number of commercial disputes piling up on judges’ desks – quite literally – merely a consequence of a strained economic situation?
Or is it a sign that integrity, personal responsibility, and reliability are losing importance in business dealings?
The Honest Merchant as a Matter of Character, Not Nostalgia
There was once the guiding principle of the honest merchant. I am aware that referring to “the past” is not a conclusive argument – but it describes a mindset. A handshake counted. A spoken word carried weight. Not out of naivety, but out of responsibility, based on trust and mutual respect.
Today, a word alone often no longer suffices. Business relationships are secured down to the smallest detail, documented multiple times, and legally hedged. Trust is replaced by complex contractual clauses, direct conversations by formal correspondence, and personal integrity by strategic silence. Not infrequently, the impression arises that the focus is less on fairness and more on exploiting leeway at the expense of the contractual partner.

Does the honest merchant still exist? Trust, handshake, and integrity in today’s business world.
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When Avoiding Conflict Becomes a Business Strategy
Similar patterns can be observed in other areas as well – for example, compensation claims for canceled flights or unfulfilled railway services. Without legal action, many customers have little chance of enforcing their rights. For some corporations, this has long become a calculated practice: they rely on the assumption that pursuing a claim is too burdensome, thereby improving their balance sheets through services not rendered and payments not made.
More Pressure, Less Clarity?
Of course, markets have become more complex. Economic pressure has increased, and room for maneuver has narrowed.
But does that justify a lack of clarity?
Or communication that deliberately remains vague in order to preserve future options?
In court, it becomes particularly clear how costly poor or missing communication can be. The price is not only financial, but also cultural. Once trust is destroyed, no contract can restore it.
As a commercial judge, I am obliged to decide strictly according to law. As a communications consultant, I see a troubling development. And as a human being, I increasingly ask myself whether we are becoming accustomed to outsourcing responsibility – to lawyers, courts, and contracts – instead of taking it ourselves.
What Is Needed Again Today
Perhaps especially in economically difficult times, we need more of what now sounds almost old-fashioned:
- Clarity.
- Commitment.
- Integrity.
- Personal responsibility.
And the willingness to address issues openly – even when they are uncomfortable.
An Open Question for You
Is the honest merchant truly rarer today than in the past?
Or does this mindset simply have a harder time surviving in an environment that rewards mistrust?
I look forward to your experiences and concrete examples.

Yours sincerely,
Nikolai A. Behr

Dr. Nikolai A. Behr CSP® ist Keynote Speaker, Kommunikationsexperte und Medientrainer für Führung, Vertrauen und empathische Kommunikation in Zeiten von Wandel und KI.

